DIVORCE COACHING
Helping you move forward
The people who come to me for divorce coaching are struggling with the practical and emotional issues surrounding divorce.
Often, they are experiencing feelings of confusion, worthlessness and guilt, especially when there are children involved. Many are also experiencing a loss of confidence and self-esteem.
I provide divorce coaching for people in their 40s, 50s, 60s and, increasingly, younger people in their 30s. Many of these people have been married or in a relationship for a very long time and expected to stay together forever. A lot of them have been suddenly ‘abandoned’ by their partner. They didn’t see the breakup coming and feel they had no chance to address problems in their relationship. They are hurt to the core and often feel completely bewildered and abandoned.
A lot of the people I see are suffering from a sense of unfairness. They are desperate for an explanation for what has happened and feel cheated out of being able to work out a solution to problems they may not even have been aware of. This leads them to experience anger, jealousy, bitterness, hatred, and thoughts of revenge. Most importantly, they experience fear: fear of losing their children or seeing so much less of them, and fear of financial hardship. These are exacerbated when their former partner has another person in their life.
What is divorce coaching?
My coaching helps my clients get clarity at a time when they are confused and overwhelmed and provides emotional support to clients who are struggling to cope during divorce and separation. With me, they find a safe space to confide their thoughts. With time, I have understood that making clients feel heard, is a major step which often enables them to start their recovery.
My service is professional, impactful and highly praised. I am proud of my reputation as an outstanding coach in divorce recovery, with glowing testimonials from clients and their solicitors for my services.
My coaching is focused on people’s communication, thoughts, emotions, and objectives in relation to their separation. It helps them adjust their way of thinking and move from the story of divorce to the practicalities.
See how I've helped others...
Move to a positive mindset
I work with both men and women equally, and have supported many CEOs, senior managers and professional clients through difficult divorces and separations by helping them to:
- Survive a time of personal crisis, namely a separation or divorce
- Discover strategies and tools to get through a difficult breakup
- Disentangle feelings of confusion
- Feel empowered, clear-headed and able to express effectively what they want
- Rediscover who they are and what they want to do next in their life
If you are struggling to cope with the breakdown of a relationship, I would be happy to have a conversation about the way you are feeling and how I can help. Please don’t hesitate to get in touch.
And if you don’t yet feel ready for divorce coaching, you might find my book a helpful starting point. After The Split provides practical advice and support for people in the immediate aftermath of a breakup.